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The Seven-Year-Old Who Dreamed Bigger
One of the well-known facts about wealth is that as you make more money, your demand for money increases. If you’ve lived on $3,000 a month for five years and dreamed about how all your problems would go away once you made $6,000 a month… well, it’s no surprise that those “inconveniences” don’t always disappear.…
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And Yet We Scroll
Today is always an interesting day. Since before I can remember, September 11th has rattled my family more than most. As a kid, I remember my grandpa speaking to the local newspaper about his years at Marsh McLennan. My grandma would tell me how he sometimes fell asleep on the train leaving New York City…
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I Put Flowers Up When Things Feel Icky Inside
I put flowers up when things feel icky inside. I sprinkle pops of color around my house that, ironically, only last a week or two. Fresh flowers are deceptive. They give the illusion of natural, lasting beauty. A hot summer wedding will have wilted flowers by the afternoon. What was once fragrant, vibrant, and tall…
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“You Can’t Have it All”
Discover how honoring your season of life as a woman can empower you to pursue your goals, find balance, and embrace your future with confidence.
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From Duct Tape to Gratitude: Learning to Be Satisfied With Less
Driving an old, beat-up Nissan taught me unexpected lessons about contentment, money, and faith. In this honest reflection, I explore how chasing upgrades—whether in cars or life—can distract us from true satisfaction, and how a shift in perspective (plus a surprise blessing) changed everything.
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Blueberry Pie
A heartfelt reflection on emotional giving, this poetic piece uses the metaphor of baking pies to explore themes of love, self-worth, and the quiet exhaustion of one-sided relationships. Perfect for readers seeking comfort, introspection, and emotional validation.
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Love, but make it biblical.
One of my favorite creators recently went through a breakup, citing disagreements over the biblical definition of love as the reason for the split. As I find myself currently falling in love with someone, it’s made me reflect on whether I truly understand what the Bible says about love—and whether the love I’m experiencing aligns…
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The Beauty of Working Backwards
One of the major accomplishments people often talk about is how fulfilling it feels to reach their goals—how “leveling up” gives us a sense of growth and purpose. Whether in our careers, homes, or relationships, we’re always encouraged to be better than we were last year… especially when it comes to material things. At 18,…
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Out of Tune
When I was around 12 years old, I went to New York City with my mom for the day. I don’t remember everything about the day, but I do remember wanting to visit the Steinway store to look at the pianos. They were obviously way out of my budget as a 12-year-old, but I got…
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Sober Curious: a generation obsessed with mocktails
“Turning 21 feels like a rite of passage, but as we navigate our twenties, many of us start questioning the role alcohol plays in our lives. From girls’ nights to cookouts, drinking seems like a given—but what if sobriety could lead to more meaningful experiences? This reflective piece explores the societal expectations around alcohol, the…
A personal blog for twenty somethings just like me.
I created Now What to help other young women discover their purpose. I began writing two years ago during a major transition in my own life, and it’s been a gift to document my growth along the way. Your twenties can feel overwhelming—you’re thrown into adulthood without a roadmap and often without a clear sense of identity. My hope is that through my words, you’ll feel encouraged to dig deeper, embrace your own journey, and boldly become the woman you were meant to be—unapologetically and wholeheartedly.
Now What? 